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Well, I haven't read the Koran myself, so feel free to disregard this next bit, but people often say that the Koran has some really nasty bits in it. I've heard that it litterly states that anyone who does not believe in Allah should me killed on sight. Women are also often treated as garbage because the Koran says that men are superior to women.

This is not so different from the Bible - except for the 'killing on sight' bit, if that is true. The Bible just says that non-believers must be converted, and that is a Christian's most important task.
I haven't read the Koran either - but repeatedly read that it has much in common with the Bible. The history of Christianity is every bit as bloody as what Islam is going through now. Perhaps it's a phase........ When Europe was in the dark middle ages, and America yet undiscovered, Islamic world was a model of tolerance and wisdom. How things have changed.

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This is not so different from the Bible - except for the 'killing on sight' bit, if that is true. The Bible just says that non-believers must be converted, and that is a Christian's most important task.
I haven't read the Koran either - but repeatedly read that it has much in common with the Bible. The history of Christianity is every bit as bloody as what Islam is going through now. Perhaps it's a phase........ When Europe was in the dark middle ages, and America yet undiscovered, Islamic world was a model of tolerance and wisdom. How things have changed.


Crusades... Jihad... both stem from one religion being threatened by another.

Personally, I think that religion actually has more power than any kind of government out there.
Especially considering that it is often directly or indirectly in control of those governments.

George W. Bush = Actually believes that he talks to God. His christian religious background plays a massive role in his political decisions.

And about the Koran... I can't claim to have read it myself either... however what I have been taught in my religion classes at school is that the Koran is open to numerous interpretations, because it rarely says anything directly upfront. Thus, the extremisits can claim that it calls for a Jihad, whilst the more moderate can see it as a means for a peaceful lifestyle.

But that's just what was taught to me by various teachers. It's obviously not a substitute for actually reading the Koran.

But now I feel inspired... perhaps I should look it up...

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And about the Koran... I can't claim to have read it myself either... however what I have been taught in my religion classes at school is that the Koran is open to numerous interpretations, because it rarely says anything directly upfront. Thus, the extremisits can claim that it calls for a Jihad, whilst the more moderate can see it as a means for a peaceful lifestyle.

That, I think, is more or less the case with the bible too. It means different things to different people, depending on what they want to achieve. Another way in which the two books have much in common.
It would be interesting to read the Koran, if one had time for it, and understand better what Islam is about - and what it's not about. I think though it needs many years of study and guidance to get the fine points, and you still need to doa lot of interpretation for yourself.

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It's difficult to get away from the violence with Islam, fundamentally, because the religion was spread by the sword, by Muhammad himself.

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I have only one problem with religion(s). The practice of faith.

For clarity, I use "faith" meaning: firm belief in something for which there is no proof.

When one or a group then go about proclaiming truths deduced through faith, ergo the problem.

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I'm supremely irritated. (Maybe it's the 40 degree heat.)

Every time I see my very kind aunt, she rather innocently opens up a discussion about religion (which is fine), but then proceeds with a rather forceful attempt at converting me to Catholicism! It's an obsession of hers that borders on insanity. This gets my goat worse than anything (although I never display any sign of vexation). And of course, I'm compelled to engage her in a 4 hour argument about the presence or absence of the Trinity. This has been going on for almost 5 years. It exhausts me! I wish she would just shut up for a minute and enjoy the moment, instead of incessantly trying to mold my world view to hers.

I never attempt to convert others from their belief system to mine; I think doing so is sort of rude, if you ask me. Last time auntie made her predictably not-so-subtle move to change me, I almost lost control of my emotions (I'm practically Vulcan, you know :lol:). I'm not one for yelling at someone, but I am very close to giving her a verbal slap-in-the-face. I can count the number of times I've lost lost my temper in my life on one hand. Really, I don't want want to add another (middle) finger. I've tried telling her directly but politely to stop the nonstop onslaught, but she just can't turn off the holy-roller attitude.

I love her to death and I don't want to hurt her. What should I do?!?! :?

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She should see that forcing someone to believe (whatever the belief maybe--Elvis is still living or 2 + 2= 5 or the Doctrines of Catholicism) is not a genuine conversion; therefore it would be correct for her to take to heart that if someone comes to believe is much better than trying to force it.


As for your actions: don't explode, don't yell. Patience is a virtue. Silence when appropriate. It is hard to bite the bullet but, as you said, you love her and I think that by yelling at her it would only cripple the love.

I hope this helps just a tad.

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She should see that forcing someone to believe (whatever the belief maybe--Elvis is still living or 2 + 2= 5 or the Doctrines of Catholicism) is not a genuine conversion; therefore it would be correct for her to take to heart that if someone comes to believe is much better than trying to force it.


As for your actions: don't explode, don't yell. Patience is a virtue. Silence when appropriate. It is hard to bite the bullet but, as you said, you love her and I think that by yelling at her it would only cripple the love.

I hope this helps just a tad.


Yes, that did help, a lot. I never thought of letting her know that I'll never believe 2 + 2 = 5 is true, unless I see that 2 apples plus 2 apples clearly amounts to 5 on my plate! I truly am searching for the truth, as honestly as possible. (I read just as much Peter Kreft as Richard Dawkins.)

I never really could explode and I am patient to a fault. Sarcasm, however is one of my strong (weak :roll: ) points. :lol:

Perhaps what I may do (with ulterior motives) is start the conversation about religion and try to convert her to my sort of science-based agnostic hybrid atheism/pantheism/deism (I don't even know what 'religion' I am.) I could ask her what she is reading (she's very concerned with me reading anything by Richard Dawkins, even if its about biology and not even remotely about faith). I could proudly and militantly shove my Christopher Hitchens and Sam Harris books upon her and proceed to vehemently explain how everything she believes is summarily false (of course I would never do that, since proving false anyone's faith is impossible. Somehow, I don't think the talk would last even 1 hour.

On the other hand, perhaps not.

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She should see that forcing someone to believe (whatever the belief maybe--Elvis is still living or 2 + 2= 5 or the Doctrines of Catholicism) is not a genuine conversion; therefore it would be correct for her to take to heart that if someone comes to believe is much better than trying to force it.


As for your actions: don't explode, don't yell. Patience is a virtue. Silence when appropriate. It is hard to bite the bullet but, as you said, you love her and I think that by yelling at her it would only cripple the love.

I hope this helps just a tad.


Yes, that did help, a lot. I never thought of letting her know that I'll never believe 2 + 2 = 5 is true, unless I see that 2 apples plus 2 apples clearly amounts to 5 on my plate! I truly am searching for the truth, as honestly as possible. (I read just as much Peter Kreft as Richard Dawkins.)

I never really could explode and I am patient to a fault. Sarcasm, however is one of my strong (weak :roll: ) points. :lol:

Perhaps what I may do (with ulterior motives) is start the conversation about religion and try to convert her to my sort of science-based agnostic hybrid atheism/pantheism/deism (I don't even know what 'religion' I am.) I could ask her what she is reading (she's very concerned with me reading anything by Richard Dawkins, even if its about biology and not even remotely about faith). I could proudly and militantly shove my Christopher Hitchens and Sam Harris books upon her and proceed to vehemently explain how everything she believes is summarily false (of course I would never do that, since proving false anyone's faith is impossible. Somehow, I don't think the talk would last even 1 hour.

On the other hand, perhaps not.

Thanks, J.



I don't know if your large paragraph was sarcastic or serious, but you don't want to be a hypocrite. Don't try to force her to believe what you may (or may not) believe because you'd be doing the same thing she has been doing.

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(I was being sarcastic.) If I ever did decide to argue in that fashion, it would not be in an attempt at conversion but rather to illustrate to her the futility of such forcing.

I know what I'm going to do, now. Next time she says anything along the lines of proselytizing, I'm going to sharply (but quietly) interrupt her and say "I don't want to have this conversation anymore this year. My mind is still open and we can have this discussion all during Holy Week but please not outside of that time." If she doesn't respect that, I won't engage in anymore debates. Fair, no?


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Fair!

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Wow, that was fast! :lol:


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PJF wrote:
I know what I'm going to do, now. Next time she says anything along the lines of proselytizing, I'm going to sharply (but quietly) interrupt her and say "I don't want to have this conversation anymore this year. My mind is still open and we can have this discussion all during Holy Week but please not outside of that time." If she doesn't respect that, I won't engage in anymore debates. Fair, no?

A clever solution. Especially when you make sure to be on holiday during Holy Week :lol:

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Our relationship has gotten much more friendly, since we quit the endless religion debates. :D


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Our relationship has gotten much more friendly, since we quit the endless religion debates. :D



isn't that nice :D

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It's better than nice; it's special.

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